Life is a mystery. It’s like an unfinished puzzle with missing pieces scattered all over.
People wake up every sunrise trying to meet up with expectations, deadlines , brought to existence by the unknown. We tend to behave like little children; Children who are still searching for “Self”. We emulate and imitate what we see in others and consider majority as the most acceptable . We are now ruled almost completely by trends.
However, I’m using this means to bring to your understanding that you and I are treading on the wrong path.
I , personally, loves getting in on celebrity gossips but in as much as I love the way they look and all ,I always try not to compete with them but instead use them as a motivation or rather an inspiration.
That feeling when I’m staring at Rihanna and I’m like “I will get there..just need to keep pushing…” . Nobody was born perfect , you can only work towards perfection and funny enough , no one has ever won that race.
I’ve always been a curious person; I’ve always been curious about life and its mysteries. Seeking knowledge every single day but still feeling like there’s still a lot I don’t know yet.
Personalities , with regards to psychology, have always been my favorite topic of discussion and study.
Knowing who you are and who your friend and relatives are is something I consider very vital. Sometimes ,you do things because society says so, you act the way they want you to and you feel perfect , pleasing every one that comes your way; Yeah, it feels great but deep down, you’re crushing your entire being. Have you stopped to think? “What do I really want?” , ” How do I feel like reacting to this? Am I really okay with it or do I need to yell?…” , When you question yourself in this manner, you will find that you’ve been faking it all your life, it’s like you’re trapped in a movie , playing a character that isn’t you in any form.
You want to be a good friend, sister, brother..and you don’t wanna hurt anyone but you’re fine with hurting yourself.
It happens to most people and they don’t even realize it. You should be your priority in life , especially when it comes to emotions.
You can’t make others happy if you’re depressed inside. Check first if you’re smiling before you put a smile on another face.
Know who you are and break free from that fake role you took on, be confident in who you are. You’re not weak sweetie, you’re just too good for your own good ,and you also need a boost in your self confidence.
Don’t be scared of loosing people, let them fear loosing you. You are just as important as they are or even more.
If you need to lose them to love you then let it be , but never lose yourself to love someone else.
I believe you know who you are deep down, you’re just scared that the world may not like that version of you . Embrace who you are now ,self -acceptance is the first step in the journey to a happy life.
Be the reason you are smiling ….
And to be frank with you sweetie, “No one can love you more than you..”
You just need to be who you are , I’m stretching forth my arms through this medium and I hope my words can pull you out of that dark world into a beautiful light .
Remember, Self acceptance is the key!!!